I recently discovered that I had accepted the limits of others. I kept hearing what others couldn’t do, and struggled with and assumed I’d have the same struggle. I will never allow this to happen again.
I always hear people discuss how its impossible to do A,B, and C in California. I don’t try to tell them any different, that is their reality- not mine. But this other thing, I guess because it didn’t happen when I thought maybe it should I was thinking I’d have to fight and struggle like those who are fighting and struggling.
The reason I wasn’t getting results- I guess- is because I was just thinking it should happen and making zero attempts to time things.
Lesson learned: The fact that you can’t do it, has no effect on what I can get done.